This might be better suited for a different topic (maybe even mental health), but here’s what’s going on.
A few days ago, I was cleaning my windows and noticed what looks like pry marks on one of the windows by the front porch. The marks are round, like someone used a screwdriver to try and open it. The top part is even a little broken.
I had the sheriff take a look, and they confirmed that it seems like someone tried to break in. The thing is, I have no idea when it happened. It could’ve been when we were out of town or even while we were home asleep. Could have been recently or a while back, but I doubt it since it’s a window we walk by often.
My question is, how do I feel safe in my house again? I’ve already ordered more cameras (we have two, but of course they don’t cover that window). I also have young kids, so not being able to sleep at night from worry is driving me crazy. I love this house, but I’m seriously considering moving if I can’t get past this.
You don’t need to move. They didn’t succeed, and any extra security measures you take now will make it even harder for someone to try again.
Start by adding some outdoor lights with motion sensors. That way, if anyone comes near your house at night, the lights will come on, and neighbors might notice. It also helps your cameras perform better with extra lighting. It’s pretty affordable unless you need an electrician to install them, but it’s a good investment that could even add value to your property.
You could also add some window sensors or alarms. There are kits that are just battery-powered, and while they might not wake you up if you’re upstairs with a fan on, you could move the speaker closer to your bedroom with some simple DIY wiring.
An alarm system would help for sure. If someone tried to break in while you were sleeping, the siren would go off immediately and wake you up before they could get inside, as long as there’s a sensor on that window.
@Nathaniel
I did get a vibration sensor alarm for the window, but I’m worried I wouldn’t hear it because I sleep upstairs with a fan on. I looked into ADT, but I’ve heard bad things about them, so I was thinking of getting a wi-fi alarm system. But it’s pretty expensive, and we’ve already spent over $1000 on a new window, basement door, and camera system. I’m not sure if spending another $300 for the alarm system is worth it. Any thoughts?
@Eva
Unfortunately, a reliable full-house alarm system costs more than $300. If you want something that covers all your windows, doors, and motion detection, you’re looking at a higher price, but it’s definitely worth it for peace of mind.
It really depends on your area and budget. I live in a place that’s seen a rise in break-ins, and a good alarm system can easily run into the thousands. Reddit doesn’t love ADT, but I’ve had a good experience with them for about 7 years now. I pay around $20 a month for a system with door and window sensors, motion detectors, and sirens. Response times have been good—cops showed up within 10-15 minutes when we had a false alarm.
I also added outdoor cameras and a fence for extra security. You might want to consider floodlights too, but keep in mind wildlife or neighbors might trigger them accidentally at night.
I just want to emphasize that they failed. You were the one who came out ahead here. Most burglaries happen when people aren’t home, so it’s very possible this was an attempt when you weren’t around.
You don’t have to turn your house into a fortress. Just make it hard enough for a burglar to move on to an easier target. Adding lights, cameras, and signs showing you have a security system is often enough to deter them. You don’t need to go overboard unless you’re storing treasure in your living room.
Get window sensors if you already have an alarm system, or look into one if you don’t. SimpliSafe is affordable and easy to set up. Also, motion-activated solar lights are a good idea—I got mine from Costco and they work great.